i have come to a conclusion that every second day of the year me and the girls get together at a nearby timmies and simply run through the year before and the year ahead. this year’s trend is about relationships. those that are brand-spanking new, those that are super long-ass, and those that are just coming to a realization that everything else before that relationship just-did-not-work-out-because-this-has-got-to-be-it_ish.
it’s the first actual time that all of us are in some sort of relationship. whereas last year we weren’t so keen to focusing on the boys as we were today. last year was about focusing on getting our personal lives in place. we were aware that knowing our inner self is more important to deal with than relationships. it’s often advised that if you do not know what you want and if you’re unsure of yourself, it’s really difficult to be with someone who can love you for who you really are. after tonight it became clear to me that we are all a year older and a year wiser of acknowledging who we are, who we want to be, and who we let in will love us of who we are because it’s what we offer that really matters.
today was a day to talk about gameplans and how to play our cards right. it was a long 5 hours of non-stop arguments after arguments. going in circles about assumptions after assumptions. it was nauseating at times but it was much needed. i have to admit, that it’s getting harder and harder to give someone advice. because at the end of the day, the advice you give is always up for criticism and you may assume certain traits of person solely based on a hunch. but i guess a little advice can go a looong way, no matter how small it is.